A Sad View on my Expenses this Christmas: The Road I Should Travel Less OTW to Financial Freedom

Well, today’s the day after my birthday.  I had a blessed day yesterday.  I have to say, I had fun taking the girls out and watching a movie with them.  I’m happy I’m able to do something with them.

DISCLAIMER: This area contains profanity.  If you are allergic to profanity, you may skip to the next paragraph. 

Jonathan made me fucking pay for the load na pinaload niya?? Tangina niya.  Singilin ba naman ako sa load, pamasahe? Putangina, eh kung siya kaya singilin ko?? Kaya ako nagagalit kasi talagang sinisingil niya ako sa pera!! Samantalang hindi niya naisip na ang laki-laki ng gastos ko sa utang na binabayaran namin! Tapos nakuha pa niyang maningil? Kesyo naggrocery daw siya kada cut off, kesyo nagbayad siya ng kung anu-ano. Tanga ka pala. Hati?? Pano tayo naghati sige nga? Paano ka makikihati sa perang kinakaltas sa akin nung lumipat tayo? Pakyu ka pala, bobo at tanga. Kung yung pera ay nakasangla eh di automatic ibabawas sakin yun. Anong pambibili ko ng groceries? Gago.  


Ugh, anyway, enough. I'm tired of trying to "understand" what's going on. I'm tired of trying to DEAL with him.  What's important is that I'm making my life better, and I certainly don't want to have anything to do with him.  

Basta what's important is that I should have enough savings to give for Tyrese's education, and I'm happy to say I've got enough months to work out my budget and savings. It's just the difficult part of trying to stick with my budget. 

So that's why I need a fool-proof, Expenses Stoplight. And I need to develop one quick since I know money is coming in!  The Christmas Bonus is in, and now I'm looking forward to next cut off's pay.  I need to be able to control myself in terms of possible expenses, and I need to make sure I am not going to spend more than I've budgeted for spending.

I actually bought a birthday gift for someone whose birthday isn't until January 2014.  The gift has to be spent by then, otherwise it's forfeited.  I keep thinking about that money, and I'm sure I'll get over it.  But now, just the thought of replenishing expenses is a little hard to take.  I've got an idea for a new blog post, and i'm going to work on that!

So this for now, more for later! :)

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